Prioritizing Your Marriage Amid the Demands of Motherhood – Lessons from Wives in the Bible

Motherhood has us running in every direction, but let’s be real—marriage deserves some spotlight too. After all, our families are built on the foundation of a thriving, God-centered marriage. So, let’s dive into some ancient, biblical wife wisdom and bring it into today’s world. Spoiler alert: if you thought biblical marriage lessons were all dusty and formal, think again! We’re keeping it real here, bringing wisdom from women who lived in the desert but knew how to keep their relationships flourishing.

Remember the Power Couple: Priscilla & Aquila?

We start with Priscilla, who teamed up with her husband Aquila to spread the gospel (and probably to balance the family budget, am I right?). Priscilla reminds us that marriage is about partnership. Yes, kids and chores can sometimes make you feel more like a roommate than a partner, but your marriage is a foundation.

Take a moment to remind yourself (and your husband) that you’re a team in this. Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 says, “Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.” The Bible knew what it was talking about here. Even a small, intentional act of partnership—like a 10-minute evening chat without interruptions—can make a world of difference.

Wifely Wisdom: Don’t let your marriage just “happen.” Make intentional moves to partner up like Priscilla.

Time for Some Ruth-Level Loyalty

Ah, Ruth. She’s famous for her loyalty, not just in her marriage but in life. Ruth’s commitment to her family shows us that even when life is all toddler meltdowns and homework struggles, sticking together matters. Ruth teaches us that loyalty means showing up, even when it’s hard. And let’s be real, that’s pretty much a daily occurrence in the land of diapers and PTA meetings.

But loyalty in marriage means making time for each other—sounds simple but, in the real world, we know it’s hard. Keep it fun and casual, like Ruth would have if date nights were a thing back then. Remember, making each other a priority doesn’t have to mean a fancy dinner; a late-night movie on the couch works just fine.

Wifely Wisdom: Take a page out of Ruth’s book—be intentional about loyalty. Schedule something small each week that’s just for you and your husband.

Sarah & Abraham: The OG Power Couple

Sarah and Abraham had their share of family drama (a lot of it, actually). They teach us that while marriage comes with its share of surprises, it’s worth it to keep the faith. Sarah followed Abraham into unknown lands because she trusted God’s plan and leaned into their shared purpose.
Even though Sarah’s story includes some big challenges, her journey with Abraham reminds us that marriage is a faith walk. In Ephesians 5:31-33, marriage is shown as a reflection of Christ’s love for the church—a profound mystery! That means our marriage can shine God’s love, too, even on the rough days. When you face struggles together, you build a stronger foundation, and your kids get to see a resilient, united front.

Wifely Wisdom: Like Sarah, sometimes you have to have faith when the future looks uncertain. Trust that by prioritizing your marriage, you’re creating a foundation that holds up, even when the unknowns hit.

Prioritizing your marriage isn’t always easy (especially when the toddler just spilled juice again), but it’s an investment in the future of your entire family. So channel your inner Priscilla, Ruth, and Sarah, and make that foundation strong.

Takeaway Prayer: “Lord, thank You for the gift of my marriage. Help me to be intentional, to prioritize our bond, and to show love and loyalty in our daily lives. Strengthen the connection between my husband and me, that we may reflect Your love and bring glory to Your name.”

Stay tuned for Part 2 of this series, where we’ll dive into Communication and Forgiveness, with some fun, practical insights from more biblical wives. See you then, Kingdom Wives!